Where do Chause and Charaughts came from?

Every thing in this world didn’t just come up without a beginning. In Science, medicines and technology didn’t just happen without prior studies about it. Diseases and bacterias started to spread, so they developed something to treat it, if not cure it. All of us humans were once bacteria. And I read once in an article that bacteria were once just amino acids. So with the alphabets and so were the words formed. Nothing in this planet just appeared out of nowhere. Getting serious huh? Chause.

Let’s start with the first word. Chause is just an extemporization of the Filipino slang “Chos” which means “just joking” “just kidding”. See how we Filipinos make our life very simple, but filled with fun? To be more clear about it, I’ll give an example. ‘Taken for granted’ is just napabayaan in tagalog. So is chos. And since we know that we could not patent chos because it is already famous, we thought of a way to make it really ours. Filipinos created a spelling that sounds exactly like it. Chause.

Next word, Charaught is actually a synonym of the word, Chause. It was derived from the tagalog word Charot which also means “a joke”, “just kidding” or “anything random”. Again, we scrabbled in our brain, made our brain cells work, and sought help from the spirits to create a difference in the spelling to make it really ours and to cater the worldwide audience as well. Hence, charaught.

Now you might think that putting them together may seem redundant. No. Because it means you are claiming that the very popular business phrase “effectiveness and efficiency” is wrong as well, because of the similarity.

This blog is about random thoughts crossing the mind of the author. I aim to share what I feel, think, and what I know to the world hoping to find people of the same souls. Yes, we all do have unique situations – different sets of problems and feelings but the thing is we’re all just humans. Nobody can claim he or she is perfect, flawless and faultless. Every person needs another person and another to be able to live in a pleasant and appalling environment. Our world.

Happy reading, neurons working.

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Falling in love

FALLING IN LOVE

Love. I wish I knew everything about it. How I dreamed of wanting to define the real meaning of it. Big word isn’t it? Well, they say we all experience to love and be loved in return. I am not saying I haven’t felt it ever. No. What I’m trying to tell you, is that love is not just a word. It’s more than that. And when we got to experience it, we past maturity stages. Stages that make us grow into a better person.

We all know that loving isn’t always a happy feeling, having a happily ever after ending. It’s not, I’m going to tell you straight. Love can be experienced in many ways. Sadness, grief, loneliness, and bitterness, it’s all there. But we all got to experience these once in a while because it’s all part of it. Loving is a happy feeling. It’s like having butterflies in your stomach that you yourself can’t understand or will never understand.

Putting yourself there is much to risk, we aren’t sure of anything in the world when it comes to love. But being in love is the best feeling you may ever feel in the entire universe, and of course being loved in return. It’s just like give and take. To make relationships work we must do all the sacrifices we needed to do. We must take risks. And I want you to know that if in the end it doesn’t work. Well there’s always another time, a second chance. A second chance for everything. We just have to look at the brighter side of it. We just have to admire the beauty of love. Because love is the most beautiful thing that happened in the world that God gave us in this life. A blessed Good Friday everyone.

PS: Take risks! Before it might get too late. Thanks for the time reading.

Something to think about…

I’ve been thinking, thinking about how life really works. In every hour that passes a healthy infant is born, and under normal circumstances, grows.  There’s nothing you can do about it. It just don’t stop.  At a certain age, a normal child will walk, talk, run.  There’s nothing you can do to stop it. Then come the terrible twos and the teen age terrible twos, and there’s not much you can do about those things either. No one did ever has found a way to stop them. Then we get older. Surgery can tighten a person’s skin, make and look them young but the person has still aged and even if after a million treatments, a person looks younger (not like him/herself anymore, just younger), they are still older and there’s nothing you can do about it. Then you die and there’s nothing you can do about that, whether you’re young or old. Death just happens. We can never hide or run from it.

Basically we are just running through our programs. We go through a lot of stages that we are programmed to go through. Then the program shuts down.  We live in this life given from our God above, but our lives is a program we don’t have control over. You can keep yourself in the best shape possible and do all sorts of things but the program is running on its own. Some people wish they were shorter, some wish they were taller, had different colour of eyes, but it is all set and there’s nothing we can do about it. We have experiences, we decide on the things that we want to think. Admit it, sometimes we tend to over think. We are deciding. But this I will tell you, in most cases the program is deciding the things for us. It gives its own opinion. And when we try our very best to interfere with it and then all sorts of problems arise. *Sighs. We are animals and like all the other animals we are simply going through these different kind of motions.  You can call it instinct, I guess. You can call it a tree, name it. You can call it anything. But it’s what it is and we are not in charge of it. It runs on its own.  Life, the universe itself might all just be in the same experiences like us. That’s not a bad think. It’s just something to think about.

The better you.

I don’t know how to begin with this writing. There are so many things I wanna say, but I don’t know how to put this in a beautiful way, so you might have an interest to read it. You know what, I’m starting to think about the way people thinks, like how they are thinking, taking in and dealing with their problems. But at the end, I find a common denominator for each and every one of us. We’re all humans.

I can say that in my own experience, sometimes we tend to think differently, people are like puzzles. We’re all dealing with our scattered pieces in life, trying to solve the big picture. Everyone will always find that a piece or two are always missing and we still keep on creating it, but we sometimes end up seeing a piece or two has the wrong fit. Let me give you an example, in your entire whole life, when you fall in love. What makes you missed that person? Is it his smell that still lingers to your mind? Is it the warmth of his hand you keep on remembering? Is it the kisses you have made when you were still together?

Let me give you one fact. When you did everything to make it work, like just creating that big puzzle in your whole life. You did your very best, up to the tiniest part, and still, you can’t figure it out. You can’t build that picture ever, I’ll tell you. I want to be straight to you, that you can’t fit on everyone’s puzzles. They have their own life, and you have yours.

You might think, that every day that pass when you are with him or her is magical, wonderful and splendid. You’ll always find a resemblance in every thing that you will do, something nostalgic. Given are the smell of him/her, warmth of their hands that warms up to yours, it will always feel like you’re holding the rays of summer sun. You’ll always remember the heat when you are with him or her. You also might think that time when you are with him or her that every moment is a fairytale that has a happy ending at the end. What makes you remember all of these is the romantic feeling you get, or the connection you two have got. The awkward silence becomes a beautiful melancholy.

But I should tell you this, not to hurt you or something. But I still insist to say this to you straightly. When the strong feeling of need for each other is gone, you tend to be incomplete. At first, you’ll miss the person. Eventually, you’ll only miss the feelings you’ve had while being with that person. You thirst for something that he or she used to give you, or things you used to have when you’re still into each other. He or she used to fit as one of your puzzle piece, then somehow outgrown the space you had for him or her.

Let me remind you, that you are not just a puzzle piece. You are a person with feelings, a dynamic character that could shift to the shape which would fit the one you like perfectly. You just can’t fill the gaps of a broken heart with the same things that they’ve done before. You have to be better. Better than before and far more refreshing than the past.

To win a place in someone’s heart is never a race. Never ever think about it as a game you should win. You should be equipped with the right tools and the right motivation to mend you’re broken heart. You must prove yourself worthy of all the best things in life. Create your own comedy story. Be a significance to other people that surrounds you. If you ever need to make someone happy, so be it, be with them, stay for them, and hear their stories. Be a good citizen. And be a good example to others. And the best of all, make someone miss you when you’re gone.

Done. I gain a lot of insights on this writing of mine. I know it could help you too a lot. So for now, this should be enough.

We have to take it by heart.

Have you ever wonder, what life will brought you in the future? I do. I do most of the times. It’s hard sometimes, you know, thinking and thinking all over again. What you must do, how to absorb everything around you. I can say that, it’s not easy to deal with. It’s heartbreaking and unimaginable. I cannot express how hard it is, to face the truth that a new chapter in my life is about gonna happen, that things may go wrong, that how would I deal with it. But there’s one thing for sure that I know of. Each and every one of us is experiencing trials and hardships in life. The point in which you are at the lowest stage and you don’t know what to do. We just have to deal with it. Ride or die as they say. I think it is true. One at a time, step by step, admitting that there’s what we call process, the process we have to take by heart, and we all will make it.

Slowly, but I know we’ll get there.

Things a Woman Should Never Do For Her Man

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In order to live a fulfilled life, there are things a woman should never do for a man. Everybody knows that love is powerful, but it shouldn’t dictate your every move. The most important thing in a relationship is to care about each other, and shouldn’t sacrifice happiness and dreams for someone else’s. 
 
1. GIVE UP YOUR DREAMS
If you’ve always wanted to be an engineer, don’t let him talk you out of it. You shouldn’t have to choose between your man or your dreams. Your man should be the one supporting you in every move you’ll do. If you two, really love one another, you should be able to find a way to make things work. Like give and take, a real man should support his girl in every step of the way. Giving all of your time to him, doesn’t mean giving up everything including your dreams.
 
2. CHANGE YOUR VALUES
Everyone has a different set of values, and I think, there’s nothing wrong with that. It’s normal. If a man really loves you with all of his heart, then he should like you for who you are, may it be negative or positive, and he shouldn’t try to change you.  And for us women, our strong values should be something that our man will admire, not something he wishes to change. So let’s also be a good example to our lover, and vice versa. 
 
3. CHANGING YOURSELF INTO SOMEONE YOU ARE NOT
We all know girls, that men do love the skinny or model type of women. But that doesn’t mean that they all need girlfriends that fit that mold. I must say, that us, women should also take care of ourselves and add a bit extra consciousness to our appearance. Like staying neat, fresh, and something that your man will see that you’re trying to be beautiful for him. The most important thing is the inside beauty of a person, and that a girl must always feel that she’s beautiful so it will naturally comes out within her. If your man pressures you to dress a certain way or to get surgery, you don’t need him. It’s your body, and you’re in charge of it. If he doesn’t see your natural beauty, then you should look for someone who does.
 
4. PRETEND SOMEONE YOU ARE NOT 
Never pretend to be someone you’re not. Do not pretend to be less intelligent or super smarty-smart when you’re not. I think in my experiences, men like independent women. They find it attractive, but don’t over do it, because they might feel you’re being dominant. Don’t worry if your man really loves you, he’ll be proud of how capable you are of taking care of things.

5. STARVING YOURSELF

There’s nothing wrong with being healthy. If you feel like you’re getting fat, or gaining weight and you want to go on a diet to lose some, begin exercising, that’s great! Of course, you should only do so because you want to better yourself or feel more beautiful. Don’t do it in order to please your partner. And, of course, never use extreme methods like starving yourself. Laughs. I can say I did that before, but I’ve realized it’s wrong. There are plenty of ways to lose weight and feel fit that involve healthy methods.

BLOG GAVE ME A NEW LIFE

I’m not a writer, I’m not good at writing and stuffs, but I do love to compose myself, something that my mind wanted to say. I’ve always wanted to express myself, my beliefs. I want myself to come out of an inside locked jar. Like for years, I’ve been keeping, suppressing myself, my thoughts. But finally, blog came into my life. There’s something good about it, that helps me release everything I want to voice out to the world, without being judge by anybody.

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What I love about blogs is that, you can get immediate response, or appreciation, acknowledgement from other people you don’t know. You can release yourself into it. It gives us voices, a heart that speaks, a personality within. And by the way, I also wanted to tell you that, I love reading. Yeah, I do love reading. Again I will say to you, I do love reading. Laughs. May it be novels, short stories, poems, insights, or revelations. I love them all. I love reading a lot, it brings us to some place magical, some place that you and the world in it is just there. It’s just like you and the plot, without other people surrounding you.

Blogging saved me, it gave me strength in the moment of misery, lost in the wilderness, and in state of seclusion. All of us has our own story, about life, love, commitments, griefs, and other things. I must say, all of it is important, because that’s what make us human, that’s what makes us live, our own life stories. Value everything, because it all happens for a reason, for a purpose. It doesn’t happen accidentally, you know. Laughs. So express yourself, bring out the best in you, say what you wanna say, and if you wanted to be heard, shout if you needed to. Just let it out, breathe, let it go.