In order to live a fulfilled life, there are things a woman should never do for a man. Everybody knows that love is powerful, but it shouldn’t dictate your every move. The most important thing in a relationship is to care about each other, and shouldn’t sacrifice happiness and dreams for someone else’s.
1. GIVE UP YOUR DREAMS
If you’ve always wanted to be an engineer, don’t let him talk you out of it. You shouldn’t have to choose between your man or your dreams. Your man should be the one supporting you in every move you’ll do. If you two, really love one another, you should be able to find a way to make things work. Like give and take, a real man should support his girl in every step of the way. Giving all of your time to him, doesn’t mean giving up everything including your dreams.
2. CHANGE YOUR VALUES
Everyone has a different set of values, and I think, there’s nothing wrong with that. It’s normal. If a man really loves you with all of his heart, then he should like you for who you are, may it be negative or positive, and he shouldn’t try to change you. And for us women, our strong values should be something that our man will admire, not something he wishes to change. So let’s also be a good example to our lover, and vice versa.
3. CHANGING YOURSELF INTO SOMEONE YOU ARE NOT
We all know girls, that men do love the skinny or model type of women. But that doesn’t mean that they all need girlfriends that fit that mold. I must say, that us, women should also take care of ourselves and add a bit extra consciousness to our appearance. Like staying neat, fresh, and something that your man will see that you’re trying to be beautiful for him. The most important thing is the inside beauty of a person, and that a girl must always feel that she’s beautiful so it will naturally comes out within her. If your man pressures you to dress a certain way or to get surgery, you don’t need him. It’s your body, and you’re in charge of it. If he doesn’t see your natural beauty, then you should look for someone who does.
4. PRETEND SOMEONE YOU ARE NOT
Never pretend to be someone you’re not. Do not pretend to be less intelligent or super smarty-smart when you’re not. I think in my experiences, men like independent women. They find it attractive, but don’t over do it, because they might feel you’re being dominant. Don’t worry if your man really loves you, he’ll be proud of how capable you are of taking care of things.
5. STARVING YOURSELF
There’s nothing wrong with being healthy. If you feel like you’re getting fat, or gaining weight and you want to go on a diet to lose some, begin exercising, that’s great! Of course, you should only do so because you want to better yourself or feel more beautiful. Don’t do it in order to please your partner. And, of course, never use extreme methods like starving yourself. Laughs. I can say I did that before, but I’ve realized it’s wrong. There are plenty of ways to lose weight and feel fit that involve healthy methods.